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This just hit me like a punch in the head.
More bad news and heartbreak from Burnaby General.
She had been leaking amniotic fluid and called her clinic repeatedly for advice. She was told not to worry.
When she went into labour..no heartbeat was detected. The health authority is not commenting on what happened.
When I read this my heart just ached for the woman.
I lost mine baby before Christmas. I was 26 weeks along.
My Ob/Gyn works out of the same hospital. I have had ‘issues’ with my treatment there too.
They were also reported as having the highest death rate in lower mainland hospitals.
Not good.
Like her, I felt that my concerns and my instincts were not heard. That science and technology have now totally overwhelmed women and their reproductive processes can cause such awful awful sad events.
I contacted the MLA who had put together the press conference to thank him for bringing this to the publics attention.
He has requested to speak to me about my feelings on the subject. I am flattered. I will let you know how this goes.
I do not think that any of the medical people in her case, or mine, for that fact, were negligent to the point of law suits, I do think that a mixture of over confidence and over work and the fact that good listening skills no longer exist was probably at the root of this sad event and many others.
I think Doctors have to start realizing again that with any medical problem, it is OUR bodies …and our bodies do their darndest to tell us that SOMETHING IS WRONG.
I think we need to remind our medical personal about this. That they are dealing in human beings…..that our problems have nothing to do with their busy schedules or overbookings.
The human body should come first.
Tags: Mom Talk


2.14.08 at 7:13 am
smalltownRN comments:
I feel like I am in the dark about this one….I use to work at Burnaby Hospital for many years…a very dear friend of mine was a labour and delivery nurse there….how tragic that all is….
You are so right though…our bodies do try their darndest to tell us that something is not right…
I November I had an injury at work….I tried to go back….twice….did everything they told me all the excercises everything…but I wasn’t healing…I know my body…I took me forever to convince them I should have a CT scan. Guess what I have a herniated C5-6 with spinal stenosis….I am off to see a neuro surgeon on Monday…..if it had been for my persistence I think I would still be thinking I was making this all up and that I just had to accept this as being so because the doctors at the time couldn’t find anything……the system when it works, works great….but when it doesn’t…..well what can I say….
2.20.08 at 9:49 am
Pam comments:
I agree with your post as I lost a baby at 22 weeks losing fluid also. Phoned my doctor who said rest and when the problem got worse it was too late and I lost the baby. The doctors often don’t listen to the mothers.